"A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked." -- Bernard Meltzer.
**** really love this quote! For me, a good friend is a person who can respect you the way you are, not condemning you for your shortcomings...akak memang ada jumpa org yg tergamak kondem orang lain just because the way she is... That is really sad, huh. Friends, tak semua orang dilahirkan sama. Tak semua orang suka makan lemak cili api, tak semua orang suka kaler biru, tak semua orang suka apa yang kita suka, tak semua orang jenis celebrative type........so, friends please show some respect....do respect others....if you want to be considered as true friend or be in ones circle of friends, just accept her the way she is...full stop..you will never hurt others by doing so....never, never once make fun of another human being or throw sarcastic remarks just because of her way or style of life. It does no good at all! Remember, we humans are not perfect. Friend, do mirror yourself. Definitely, you will encounter some cracks in you also. So, stop ridiculing others!!!.....****
***Below is a beautiful comment from a fren....a very good one and I like it very much.. (dek akak copy paste part of the comment kat sini, bior yg berkenaan dapat manafaat ..dapat juga ko kutip pahala)..
"Instead of listening, they're being judgmental to whatever told to them. I believe true friends is to listen and to advice if and only if being requested. If a friend told you a story, no matter how "bad" it's, it meant for you to listen. Once you're being judgmental, you'll tend to be pick side based on your own values, which in this case, do not give any value to what your friend feel at the moment."
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Quite too often I listened a very particular person complained abt friends who are being ...I would say...too nosy. Instead of listening, they're being judgmental to whatever told to them. I believe true friends is to listen and to advice if and only if being requested. If a friend told you a story, no matter how "bad" it's, it meant for you to listen. Once you're being judgmental, you'll tend to be pick side based on your own values, which in this case, do not give any value to what your friend feel at the moment.
Do you know I can be a very good friend but still learning how to crawl in the subject to be a very good friend and also as a great companion ;). ..and I need to learn it very fast...
Jambu,
Thanx for a vey beautiful thought..Akak ter'emo' sikit ari ni..terusik jiwa raga dek manusia2 tertentu...akak tak kaco deme pun, alih2 masuk umah cyber akak nak pekena kita balik...huish...lama dah akak menjeruk rasa dgn sipolan ni..tapi ini hari tarak tahan dek!
No doubt, I can feel you can be a good friend. Your openmindedness leads to this. Org yg jenih open minded saja yg bole terima org lain dgn seadanya. Yang otak sempit lak, selalu declare open minded but bila tak ikut rentak depa, terus judge kita, condemn kita, dek oi...akak pun pandai gak melibas...belajor2, asyik kena libas je dek, mak mana tahan nyah...
err akak...
....errr ader "royalty" ke?
hehehe... just kidding
Memanglah patience is one of our good virtues, but kalau lebey2... kena gak "libas"...which I totally agree with u...!
jambu,
ko ni kalo buat buku boleh laku weh! Ada talent in writing..sure kalo ko tgh 'emo' ko tulih lagi best2, coz masa tgh 'emo' ni normally we write from our heart...org baca boleh samapi ke black bone gitew...royalti nanti kalo ko sampai sini bole tuntut kat abang...syisha yok!
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